Questions 16~20
When my first child was born, my mother-in-law said to me:“Motherhood is wonderful just as long as you remember that A Mother’s Place is in the Wrong. No matter what you do, your children will blame you.
Since that time, almost nine years ago, I have carefully monitored mothers and their growing offspring to verify this maxim, and found that indeed it contains much truth.
For example, if a mother stints herself to the point of starvation to send her darling to a good boarding school, the darling will turn round years later and accuse her of being a snob who deprived her of everyday family life.
If, on the other hand, a mother sends her little lamb to the local neighbourhood school; the little lamb will grumble years later that his parents didn’t give a fig for education and that is why he is illiterate and on the dole.
If a women has a job, her children will speak mournfully of the experience of being latchkey kids who never knew what it was to come home to the j oy and security of a mum baking bread in the kitchen.
If a women does not work, her daughter will afterwards describe her old mum as a
“suburban cabbage” who never “fulfilled herself”.
If a women endures a painful and difficult marriage for the sake of the children, she will be told by those children, when grow-up, that she was an absolute fool to put up with it and should have walked out years ago.
If she considers it to be best to end the marriage, they will accuse her of causing them “paternal deprivation syndrome ”and obliging them to grow up in “a one-parent situation”.
If you try to shield your children from the weary realities of life, they will say you were absurdly overprotective.
If you try to share your troubles with them, they will say that you overburdened them with responsibilities and cheated them of their childhood.
If you have but a single child, the child will say afterwards that you selfishly deprived it of siblings, and will tell sad stories about the loneliness of its childhood.
If you have two children, they will describe their family background as typical, stereotyped, neurotic, introverted-a nuclear family. Truly, a mother’s place is in the wrong-and, yea, it goes on even unto the third generation.
When your children encounter trouble or difficulties as adults, in their own marriages or in their personalities, whom do they blame? You’ve got it in one: mother!
16. Having thought about her mother-in-law’s advice, the author_________.
A. was inclined to doubt the advice
B. interviewed women whose children had grown up
C. decided to put the advice to the test
D. asked adults about their childhood
17. The passage suggests that local schools______________.
A. make children feel insecure
B. have a poor educational record
C. allow children too much freedom
D. are for the children of “suburban cabbages
18.According to the passage, a women who divorces her husband will___________.
A. be backed by her children
B. be blamed by her children
C. usually blame her husband
D. soon lose the children’s affection
19. It can be concluded from the passage that mother________.
A. are willing to take the blame
B. are blamed unfairly
C. can not be blameless
D. cannot avoid blame
20. What would be the best title for this passage?
A. A Great Mother Should Fulfill Herself
B. A Typical And Stereotyped Family
C. The Generation Gap
D. Motherhood Is A No-Win Situation
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